Friday, 6 June 2014

Mother in tears after being called a 'SLUT'

Mother in tears after being called a 'slut' by two customers for breastfeeding her son in Costa coffee

  • Rhea Holley verbally abused by couple in their 60s as she fed baby Arthur
  • 27-year-old was in 'breastfeeding friendly' Costa Coffee in Purley, London
  • Baristas 'reprimanded' the couple who had called Mrs Holley 'disgusting'
  • New mother praises staff after being left in 'floods of tears' over the abuse

A new mother was left in floods of tears after being called a ‘slut’ by two customers for breastfeeding in Costa coffee.
Rhea Holley was with a friend, both with new babies, in Costa Coffee in Purley, south London, when her son Arthur began to cry for a feed.
The 27-year-old, from Faversham in Kent, said she knew that Costa Coffee was ‘breast-feeding friendly’ and so she started to feed her 11-month old.
Within seconds, however, a couple sitting nearby started calling her a ‘slut’ and telling her she was ‘disgusting’ and that her feeding the baby in public was ‘offensive’.
Mrs Holley said she was left in ‘floods of tears’ after being abused by the couple, who were in their 60s.
Said she spoke to Costa Coffee workers, who ‘reprimanded the couple’, telling them breastfeeding was allowed in public.
One barista told the couple that The Equality Act 2010 bans anyone asking a breast-feeding woman to leave a public place, such as a cafe, shop or public transport and warned them to stop being abusive.
Speaking after the incident in Brighton Road, Purley, mother-of-one Rhea said: 'Arthur was asleep at the time so I went in and ordered us some drinks and cake.
'While we sat there Arthur woke up and he was quite upset and so I started to breast-feed him.

'A couple were on a table that was facing in such a way that they did not have to look at me.
'I heard one of them say "it is disgusting", that I know what time babies should be fed and should stay at home then, and that I was a "slut".'
Staff at the Costa Coffee in Purley, pictured, 'reprimanded the couple' who had made the abusive remarks to new mother Rhea Holley
Support: Staff at this Costa Coffee in Purley, south London, pictured, 'reprimanded the couple' who had made the abusive remarks to new mother Rhea Holley
Rhea Holley praised Costa Coffee staff for supporting her after she was branded 'disgusting' by a pair of elderly customers while she was breast-feeding (file picture)
Rhea Holley, pictured, was left in floods of tears after being called a 'slut' by other customers in a south London coffee shop
Rhea Holley, pictured right with son Arthur, praised staff at Costa Coffee (file picture left) for supporting her after she was branded 'disgusting' by a pair of elderly customers while she was breast-feeding
Speaking about the barista and Costa staff, who ‘told off’ the couple, she said: 'It was so good of them - not only to stand by the law on breast-feeding but also to be so supportive of someone feeling so upset.'
A spokesman for Costa said: 'Mothers bring in children of all ages to Costa and they are always warmly welcomed by us.
'We have always been very happy for mothers to breast-feed in our stores offering a family-friendly environment that is the perfect place for mums to relax with their children.'

HOW THE EQUALITY ACT AIMED TO PROTECT BREAST FEEDING MOTHERS

The Equality Act 2010 made it illegal for anyone to ask a breastfeeding woman to leave a public place such as a cafe, shop or public transport
It states that a business cannot discriminate against mothers who are breastfeeding a child of any age.

In Government guidelines, companies are advised to make sure women they are providing a service to 'are allowed to breast feed on your premises if they want to'.

It also advises that staff are trained to understand the rights of breast feeding mothers.

Under the Act 2010, discriminating against someone because they are with a breastfeeding mother is also prohibited.
 

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